Meditating on the Cross of Christ

 

    I have always enjoyed listening to chant.  One of my favorite things to do when I lived in San Diego was to go to morning prayer at Prince of Peace Abbey  Besides having one of the coolest Icons I've ever seen (If you watch their banner, you can see it on the wall behind the altar) being able to chant the office with them was incredibly meaningful.

    So I listen to chant often, especially when writing sermons or during meditation time.  This Lenten season, I became particularly enamored with Salve Caput Cruentatum.

    Depending on which Google article you read, it is based on a longer Latin poem title Salve mundi salutare and was written by Bernard of Clairvaux, or Arnulf of Leuven.  It was later translated into German and eventually English ("O Sacred Head, Now Wounded").  The poem addresses seven parts of Christ's body on the cross:  feet, knees, hands, side, breast, heart, and head.

    It's been a while since I caught the poet's muse, but this chant inspired me, so here is my own attempt at thinking about Jesus on the Cross.  I hope it blesses you. 

I see my Savior upon the cross

I see your feet upon the cross
               Your feet

                            trudged in the empty wilderness;
                            danced at a wedding in Cana;
                            dripped with costly oil and a woman’s tears;
                Your feet
                            stumbled in the streets of Jerusalem;
                            drip your blood from the nail pinning them to the wood;
                            are where my feet should be.

I see your knees upon the cross
                Your knees
                            knelt in daily prayer to your Father;
                            dandled a little child upon your lap;
                            bent to wash disciples’ – and betrayer’s – feet;
                Your knees
                            scraped against the hard stones of the streets of Jerusalem;
                            shakily lift your body for a breath;
                            are where my knees should be.

I see your side upon the cross
                Your side
                            felt your mother’s arm wrapped tight as you fled to Egypt;
                            was near the disciples as they walked;
                            lay near by the disciple whom you loved;
                Your side
                            was next to a thief who asked to be remembered in paradise
                            gushes blood and water as a spear slices between your ribs
                            is where my side should be.

I see your hands upon the cross
                Your hands
                            reached out and gently, lovingly, touched lepers;
                            applied mud to a blind man’s eyes, bringing sight;
                            broke bread in an upper room;
                Your hands
                            grasped the rough splintered wood of the cross
                            spasm with pain from nails driven through their flesh
                            are where my hands should be.

I see your face upon the cross
                Your face
                            looked upon your mother’s face while at her breast;
                            smiled with joy as Peter walked on water
                            wept with sorrow at the death of one you loved;
                Your face
                            swells from blows given by soldiers
                            grimaces in agony both physical and spiritual
                            is where my face should be

I see my Savior upon the cross
                Suspended where I should be.
                Amazing grace that you, my Lord,
                would will to die for me. 

J.C. King

4/15/22

Good Friday

Poured out and Filled up

            I just got back from a church-planting conference, put on by Always Forward, the church planting initiative of the Anglican Church in North America.  This was my second time attending this conference, and I was in a much different place of my life. 

One year ago I was there, still trying to figure out if I really was being called by God to be a church planter, and if so, where?      A lot happened in the intervening year:  I retired from the U.S. Navy after 30 years of service.  The change from military culture to civilian culture could take up many blog posts, but suffice to say it is a significant change.  My wife and I had suddenly figured out that now no one would be telling us where we could live – it was up to us!  Of course, we wanted it to be up to God, not just us.  After a lot of discernment, prayer, anxiety, faith, worry, more faith, etc we were called to Billings, MT.  There, I would serve as rector to a small but faithful group of Anglicans, and continue my medical work part time.  There was much that we looked forward to – less traffic, great outdoors, wonderful people, the thrill of doing Kingdom work.  There was also much that we did not look forward to – leaving our daughter, son-in-law and grandson behind in Southern California, being further away from my parents, winter, and the challenges of doing Kingdom work.

When I attended this year’s conference, we had been in Billings for a little over 2 months.  We had settled in pretty well.  Everything was out of boxes and in “a place” in our house, if not necessarily the “right place”.  We had made wonderful friends.  The church was very committed to doing the “hard work” of planting.  When asked “How are you doing?” by my friends, colleagues, leaders, and family I would honestly reply “Great!” and describe some of the progress we had been making.  Nevertheless, I had been feeling tired – civilian medicine, with Medicaid and lack of other insurance was a new thing for me after the military.  The hard work of leading the church, pastoring those with hurts, finding family time, finding “me” time, etc was beginning to take its toll and I was starting to feel like I was being drained.

This brings me to Wednesday night and a Eucharist and “commissioning” at the church planter’s conference.  After the Eucharist they invited us forward for prayer – they encouraged “those of you who are tired, or feeling shame, or anxiety” to come forward.  As I went forward, I still had that mindset of “I’m doing okay”….until I got there.  Suddenly I found myself weeping uncontrollably as the realization of the stresses I had undergone in the past 2 months hit me.  I felt inadequate – a “make believe” priest ordained for only 1 ½ years, trying to plant a church!  I felt small.  I felt the anxiety of “what if this doesn’t work? What if I screw it up and it all comes tumbling down like a house of cards?”  I felt the drain on me spiritually as I struggled to meet these new (self-set) expectations and as I tried to “do” Kingdom work.  And I cried out to God that I was feeling like I was being emptied – poured out.

At that moment, two things happened.  First, I remembered that others had spoken of being “poured out” – that language is used of both Paul and Jesus in Philippians.  Second, I had a vision of a cruet with water, like we have at the altar.  The water level was getting lower and lower.  And in my mind, God spoke to me and with a chuckle (I confess I have never heard God chuckle before). He said

“Silly child.  Of course I want you to empty yourself.  I want you to pour out everything.  Empty yourself, so I can fill you.  For you, yourself, will run out – but I never will.  You will be filled with living water – that you will never run dry.  Let me fill you to overflowing.  It is then that you can minister to others and still be full yourself. (At that point the priest said “God is an inexhaustible reservoir of joy”)  Not only does my living water nourish and satisfy, it also cleanses.  It washes away your shame, your doubt, your fears, your anxieties.  Let me fill you.  Do not hold the water in – let it flow, and as it flows it will make and mold you, wearing away the rough spots.”

So why am I sharing this with you?  First, to give God glory.  God does not often meet me like he did that night (probably because I don’t seek to meet Him in that way as often as I should).  But when He does meet me, it is the most joyful, peaceful, powerful, wonderful experience.  I share this so that you may know that you can meet God in that way.  I also share it because I am pretty sure there are others out there who feel the same way I did.  Inadequate.  Fearful.  Anxious.  Poured out.  I am here to tell you that the message God gave me that night is the same message He is giving to you.  Let him fill you.  Overflowing.  Cleansing.  Another way to put it…

Be still, and know that He is God.

I lift my eyes to the hills.

Today I went for a bicycle ride out into the country.  It was a nice long time to spend talking to God.  We spent time with me going over my shortcomings (a.k.a. sins).  We spent some time with Him reminding me that I’m forgiven.  We spent a lot of time taking delight in God’s creation.  In particular, I enjoy God’s hills when I’m riding.  There were quite a few hills on this ride, and it was hot.  So I started doing what I always do in a difficult hill-climb – I recite Psalm 121.

     I lift up my eyes to the hills-- where does my help come from

     My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.

     He will not let your foot slip-- he who watches over you will not slumber;

     indeed, he who watches over Israel will neither slumber nor sleep.

     The LORD watches over you-- the LORD is your shade at your right hand;

     the sun will not harm you by day, nor the moon by night.

     The LORD will keep you from all harm-- he will watch over your life;

     the LORD will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.

As I literally lift my eyes up to the top of the hill that I am bicycling, these words give me strength.  They remind me that God is with me.  That whenever I am struggling (and even when I’m not) God is my helper.  I was also reminded that God is my shade.  It was hot out and the sun just seemed to beat down relentlessly.  Just like shade provides sweet, cool relief, God refreshes and renews when things just seem to be beating me down.

But God had one other lesson for me, too.  When I got to the top of the hill, I turned around to go back home.  Suddenly I was facing a headwind (and I hate headwinds as much as I love hills!).  But it occurred to me that while going up the hill, I had a tailwind – a helper when I didn’t even know it.  In the Bible, the word for Spirit is pneuma (which is also the word for wind).  As we travel in the way of Christ, we encounter difficult hills.  But the Holy Spirit has our back!  With his help, we can make it up the mountain.  Likewise, when we turn back, the Holy Spirit can get in our face!  In my experience, going with the Spirit is always better than going against him.

So, during those hills that never end or when the sun is beating down on you, just remember Psalm 121.

God bless,

Fr. John

Advice to the Young Men in My Life: Physical Labor is Good!

When I was in high school, we lived in a very small town just outside of Reno, called Verdi.  I spent some of the best years there – exploring the outdoors, fishing, riding my mini-bike, shooting my bb gun.  But one of the best memories I have of that time is splitting wood.  Now, don’t get me wrong.  At first, I hated it.  It was just one more chore I had to do.  But over time, it became something I enjoyed doing (well, maybe not all the time!).  Splitting wood taught me some valuable lessons when it comes to physical labor.  Those lessons can apply whether using an ax, or digging in a garden, or hauling sand-bags, or repairing a fence.

1. God created us to work.  This does not mean that working in an office is not Godly.  But it does mean that we can experience God through our physical labor as well – in fact, sometimes it actually seems easier!
2. Physical labor improves your coordination.  You don’t need to miss the log with the axe too many times before you get a lot better at your hand-eye coordination.
3. Physical labor pays off in the fitness area.  You don’t build too many muscles playing X-box!  On the other hand, hauling around logs or bags of sand is great for the biceps.  Not to mention the heart, weight loss, etc.
4. Physical labor gives you a sense of accomplishment.  It seems there is always more paperwork to do, more calls to make, more bills to pay.  But physical labor usually has a definitive end.  There’s nothing quite as satisfying as finishing that last log and stacking it on the pile.
5. Physical labor reminds you that many people make their living this way.  I’m not just talking about manual laborers in the United States.  Think about all the men and women in underdeveloped countries that not only “make a living” with physical labor, but simply “live” through physical labor.  Hand-washing clothes.  Fetching water from a well.  Taking care of livestock.  This does two things for me.  It makes me realize how blessed I am, and it gives me a tremendous respect for those who labor daily.
6. Physical labor is great for “working through things”.  Break up with your girlfriend?  Split some wood.  Mad at your parents?  Split some wood.  Fail that exam?  Split some wood.  Feel like life has become waaay too complex and that you’ll never be good at “adulting”?  You guessed it – split some wood.  Manual labor both focuses your mind on a task, and allows you to work through things mentally and emotionally.  It’s also a great way to “let off steam” without damaging your knuckles on a wall!
7. Physical labor teaches responsibility.  There’s an easy connection when the labor is a chore, or part of your job.  You have a responsibility to do something, and there are consequences if you don’t and rewards if you do.  But even if the labor is a personal project there is still a feeling of satisfaction when the job is done and done well.
8. Physical labor teaches valuable skills.  So, maybe there will never be a zombie apocalypse.  However,  what if the power goes out?  It’d be nice to have a fire on a cold night.  What if your car breaks down?  It’d be nice to be able to haul your groceries home.  What if your power tools get left out in the rain?  It’d be nice to know how to use a hammer, saw, and post-hole digger.  What if the plumber can’t get there until tomorrow?  It’d be nice to know how to fix a leaky pipe.
9. Physical labor gives you a sense of ownership.  When you are the one who split that cord of wood, or put those sandbags in place, or built that fence, then you can rightfully claim “I did that”.  Of course, that also goes back to responsibility.  If you did that, then you are the one responsible for the quality of the work.  Ownership and responsibility go hand in hand, and often lead to improvements.
10. Physical labor is sometimes best when done alone – it gives time to sort things out.  But physical labor is also sometimes best when done together.  The only thing that was better than splitting wood by myself was when my dad was teaching me.  Working together to labor creates bonds that the office can’t match.

 So, go out and find some manual labor (if you need help, there’s still some logs in my backyard that need splitting….)

The Dance

               Every so often God and I get into some deep talks at around 2 am.  I’d like to share today’s discussion with you.

I can remember watching my daughter dance “just because” when she was a toddler.  I can remember watching in ballet class when she was around 4 or 5 years old.  But my favorite memories are teaching her dance.  It would start with her (literally) standing on my feet as I danced.  Later, she managed her own steps.  We danced at her wedding.  And I also taught others how to dance with her. (No, I did not let the young men stand on my feet!).  So last night, as I was praising God at 2 am, I started thinking about David “dancing before the Lord” (2 Sam 6:14), and God and I had a talk about it (He talked, I listened.  After all, that’s part of being still).

God delights in watching us dance.  Even when we don’t think He’s watching, or aren’t even aware He’s watching, He is.  And he delights.  God delights in our joy (I’m talking here of joy, not necessarily “happiness”.  There are many things we think make us happy, that God isn’t too excited about.  But joy comes from the spirit.)  What may start out for us as joy in a “thing” or “event” becomes magnified into a joy for the dance itself.

God is a gentleman – He wants more than to watch, but He’s not going to just cut in.  He yearns to be invited:  “Dance with me, Daddy!” and He wants us to let Him lead.  Even more than watching us dance with joy, God loves to dance with us in joy.  This is shared love and trust.  This is no longer just a joy of dancing.  It is a joy that comes from dancing with the Lord of the dance.  And when we dance with the Lord we become grace-full, for God is patient and loving in that dance.  He gives us grace when we lose the beat, or make a mis-step, or trip on our own feet, or step on His.  He takes even our mis-steps and somehow incorporates them into the dance and creates something beautiful and timeless that we are a part of.  Something that is overflowing with love and joy.

But God doesn’t stop there.  It is that love and joy that others standing on the sidelines see.  And they hunger for it.  They yearn for it.  And God tells us to invite them in.  God is big enough that the dance is personal, but not individual.  Whatever comes to you mind at this point – line dancing, mosh pit or ballet – God knows the steps.  And He takes them all and somehow combines them through love and grace and power to make a beautiful choreography.  This is love between us and God, and between us and others (Matthew 22:37-40). 

There is a $25 seminary word that describes the Trinity – perichoresis.  It is the idea of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit dancing together.  The cool thing is, you’re invited to the dance!

Advice to the young men in my life: (Learn to) Write a Letter!

 Dear young man:

           When I think about letters in my life, three major sets of correspondence come to mind.  First, I remember as a young man, getting letters from my grandmother.  They were always addressed to “Master Johnny King” – which, of course, I thought was VERY cool.  She would tell me about small things in her life. Of course, I would “have” to write back (I saw it as a chore back then).  My letters inevitably started “Dear Grandma:  How are you?  I am fine.”  Trying to find things to say about a young boy’s life that would interest my grandmother seemed difficult.  It was not until many years later that I understood it wasn’t so much the content of the letter that mattered, it was the contact itself.  As I grew older, Grandma continued to write, even when I didn’t.  She would send clippings of Bloom County, knowing it was my favorite comic strip.  I remember her letters were always so much fun to read – they provided a sense of home and connectedness.

            The second correspondence I remember is between me and my girlfriend/fiancée.  I was in San Diego and she was in Reno.  Back then there were these things called “long distance phone calls” and they cost money!  We talked by phone no more than once a week.  But we wrote each other often.  Those letters were easy to write, though I confess often repetitive in nature as I talked about how much I missed her and how much I loved her.  Those letters also provided a sense of connectedness as well as hope and love.  There was also a sense of expectation – of eagerly checking the mailbox each day and the joy of finding a letter there. 

            The final set of letters in my life are the letters I receive from the children I sponsor through Compassion International.  These letters are handwritten (sometimes by teachers, for the children too young to write).  They sometimes sound like the letters I wrote my grandmother, but they are full of love!

            I still have the letter my grandmother wrote to me when I graduated medical school.  I still have the letters I received from Marji (and she still has the ones from me).  And literally have 3 binders full of the letters from our compassion kids. Re-reading all these letters bring back precious memories and deepen relationships.

            E-mails are convenient, certainly.  I remember being on deployment and being able to e-mail daily. And yet I would still write longer “letters” sent by email to family and friends every month.  Yet despite the convenience – or maybe because of it – e-mails have their down-side.  Let’s start with the “art” of writing.  It was bad enough that I would write “Dear Grandma:  How are you?  I am fine?”  But e-mail (and texting) encourage even worse:  “How r u?”  “IDK”  “lol” and so on.  There is something about taking the time to write out a sentence fully – artfully – that makes letters personal.  You invest a part of your life in letters.

            Now, being an old-fashioned guy who still prefers holding a book in his hands to reading something on my iPad, it should come as no surprise that I also find something “tangible” in holding a letter that has a person’s handwriting on it.  How many e-mails a day to we delete?  (How much junk mail do we throw away each day?)  I don’t know about you, but I certainly don’t have any e-mails that are 30+ years old.

            A few final thoughts:  Second to a nice long letter is a hand-written note.  A thank-you note, a get-well card, a note of encouragement.  These hand-written “moments in time” still contain a piece of the person who wrote them.  They speak of consideration given in time and thought.  Lastly, good letter writing skills will prove themselves when it comes to finding a job.  Sending a letter of intent (even if attached electronically), a letter of thanks for an interview, etc can make a tremendous difference.

            The one time I can still anticipate a letter is with Christmas cards.  Even so, it is not quite the same.  They are personal, but not individual.  They do increase connectedness and relationship, but sometimes it seems more like a Christmas ritual than a true correspondence.

            So here is my challenge to you:  write a letter.  In fact, make it a habit to write a letter – shoot for once a month.  And send it by regular mail – I guarantee it will brighten someone’s day (maybe even your own).

With much love,

Pastor JC

Advice to the young men in my life: Turn off the electronics!

            First of all, I realize there is some irony in my giving this advice on a blog.  And this is definitely one of those instances where “do as I say and not as I do” comes into play (but I am trying to take my own advice).  Second, I realize that this is tough advice during the Christmas season, when you are bound to get any number of electronic things to “play” with.  Lastly, I realize that I have a tendency (as do many people my age) to get a little preachy about this, so I apologize before-hand.

            Nevertheless, let’s get into it.  It is amazing to me to see how connected we all are to our phones these days.  People sitting side-by-side, totally engrossed in a small screen, with ear buds in their ears.  They are oblivious to the world around them, and to each other.  We’ve all seen the videos of people looking at their cell phones, and walking into lamp-posts, etc.  We’ve also heard stories of people who are so “trusting” of their car navigation system that they end up in lakes or on railroad tracks.  These stories are funny, yet incredibly sad at the same time.  Throw in the amount of snarkiness and search for self-esteem that people exhibit on Facebook and other social media.  Add the time spent playing video games or watching TV/Streaming media.  The result is increasing isolation that is masked by electronic connections.

            The American Academy of Pediatrics has some recommendations regarding screen time.  They discuss time limits, media-free times and media-free zones all of which seem like reasonable and healthy recommendations.  Let’s look at play time and physical activity.  When I was a kid (you knew that phrase was coming!) I remember playing “kick the can”, “capture the flag”, “red light / green light”, and “red rover”.  These games developed thinking skills, social skills, motor skills, and were just plain fun!  I also remember riding my bike:  building jumps, trying to pop a wheelie, and racing friends.  Once again while building friendships and having fun I was improving gross and fine motor skills, learning physics (how to build a jump), and learning how to cope with failures (and road rash).  So, what’s the difference between these and the media games kids love?  While fine motor control and response time may be improved with video games, there are definite differences with number of calories burned/general health and social connectedness.  There is also a difference in learning about risk.  If I “risk” in a video game, the worst that will happen is I “lose a life” and have to start over.  And if its multi-player, my friends get mad – but there is no real loss.  If I mis-judge my bike jump, the consequences of that risk are a little deeper than the video game.  Yet in some ways, the younger generations have become more risk-averse.  (Granted, this is due to a lot more than video games!)

We played “soldier” and “cowboys and Indians” with toy guns and dirt clod hand grenades.  There was no blood and gore associated with it (unless there was a rock in the dirt clod).  There was always honor associated with it (fighting the bad guys, rescuing the oppressed, etc.).  It wasn’t about the killing, it was about being the soldier or cowboy, or hero.  Contrast that with the current video games, most of which seem to revolve around shooting as many people as you can and/or stealing as many cars as you can.  As far as I know (no, I have not played call of duty or grand theft auto or any of the other games, so I could be wrong) it is all about killing and making money.  Our games fired our imagination.  It required that we take mundane objects and – with our mind – turn them into spectacular props for our play.  It required compromise: “Let’s do a frontal assault” – “no, let’s try to take them from behind”.  It also didn’t take up the amount of time video games can suck out of our lives.  I do remember as a late 20’s newly married man getting WAAYY to engrossed in a computer game.  My wife rightly called me to accountability and reminded me that my new marriage was MUCH more important to spend time on than some space-conquering game.  It seems many of us (young and old) need a reminder of that these days.  All too often we find ourselves in the same room with family or friends, each one of us absorbed in our own digital world.

Electronics and the internet can certainly be a blessing.  We have access to unlimited information.  Problem is, that leads to us believing something without verifying it.  It also leads to us not having to think for ourselves.  Its too easy too look up something rather than to mull it over (or better yet talk it over) and come to a decision on our own.  By all means, then check that decision!  But at least MAKE one instead of letting someone else make it for you.

So, let me make a few suggestions, in keeping with the AAP.  First, limit the time you spend on electronics.  Turn off the TV.  Maybe even take an extended (i.e. 3-6 months) from TV.  You’d be surprised how fun reading and playing games and just talking can be!  Don’t be so tied to your cell phone.  Set times that you will check e-mail and texts or return calls.  If someone REALLY needs to talk to you, they’ll manage to get the message to you, don’t worry.  Maybe even consider leaving your phone at home!  (Believe it or not, there was a time when phones were “tied” to our homes and didn’t go everywhere with us – and we survived!).  Give up (or at least take a break) from the video games.  Trust me, there are many more productive things you could be doing!  Finally, establish some “no electronic” zones.  Mealtime (whether at home or the restaurant) is a good choice.  Bathrooms are another good choice (a pet peeve of mine is people talking on the phone while in the bathroom – not very considerate of those they are talking too, or others in the restroom!)  And finally, how about writing a letter instead of texting someone (which will be our next topic!).

Now that you’re done reading this blog, turn off your computer and go spend some time with someone face-to-face!  Merry Christmas.